Why birthdays are stressful

It was my birthday on a few days ago and guess what I'm a potterhead now!!! and also, my mother gave me the best gift ever, an instagram account!!!
But you know what....Birthdays are stressful... and here's why

Birthdays are stressful for both the parent and the child..

In my case when I was a little younger I started the birthday countdown months before, but as you grow older this curiosity decreases..(anxiousness> stress)

you are asked loads of questions. Like you just suddenly turned into, whom?, some great celebrity!!! aunties, uncles,friends basically everyone.. its like you are in an apocalypse of people who want to know all sorts of things.. and when i say all sorts, I mean all sorts ..... and then a day or two later you are back at square one, that same old unpopular person. 

Maybe you are an AMBIVERT (extrovert-cum-introvert)... you are the life of the party at the start but eventually you come to know the place has turned into a zoo, you curl up into your cozy nook and think of your fiends and then just minutes later of your existence........
the wishes are not that tough to handle compared to the other tasks. you might be wished at 12 midnight or maybe even at 11:59 p.m. ...whenever the wish comes if you don't show your gratitude towards them, especially if its an aunty or an uncle the you have absolutely no idea of what is going to happen when you meet them next.
the parents have tougher time. Especially the mother, clean the house cook the food, send the invitations, decide the party games,get return gifts, the list is endless....

now, the next day the clean up 
your house will look less like a house and more like a dumpster. gift wrappers all over,plastic cups, plates ......
well, this is usually the next day so you are no more the birthday child so no one thinks twice before scolding you for being too lazy not to clean up. eventualy you will clean he whole place up and your mother will be satisfied. then if you are like me youll go an eat your cake and enjoy till your next birthday. whatver cause I might come up with, but when you enjoy the party, you enjoy it......

so whoever has their birthday next, happy birthday and hang on there. meet you next week with another topic till then goodbye.

A note to my future self

Hi,
I just wrote a e-mail to myself in the future that will be delivered to me 10 years from today. I cant believe technology had become so advanced. actually I cant believe 10 years from today I will be reading an email from me to me!!!! writing this was loads of fun, this is going to be a reminder of what I stand as today, and what I shall be after 10 years. a reminder of how I changed over the years ( which may not happen). but, I want my future self to remember how I was as a 11 year old .

But, the reason why I am writing this on my blog, is that I want my future self to know what I expected from myself. i do not know where i will be that time? Will i even remember about this blog? No matter what happens, i want myself to know what i expected from myself... with the competition in todays world i do not know whether ill be what i want to. but i want myself to remember what i, as a 11 year old wanted out of my life.
i want my future self to work harder to accomplish what i wanted  myself to become when I grow up as a kid.  I still have loads of time till i actually decide whom i want to be as an adult. but for now i will just stick to working hard for things that I can do at this age to try and make the task easier for my future self.

The link to the website where i wrote the email is https://futureme.org
I hope it inspires you to work harder to make a brighter future for yourself and your loved ones.

Until next time,
Goodbye.

 

I'm a DAY DREAMER

DREAMS! DREAMS! DREAMS!

WE LOVE TO DREAM!

DREAMS AT NIGHT,

DREAMS DURING THE DAY....

DREAMS WE REMEMBER, 

DREAMS WE DARE.....

I  accept I am a day dreamer, I dream about practically everything on earth, right from being the prime minister or meeting aliens.....

There are endless possibilities to what I dream, after all a dream is my movie, I star, I direct, I produce and I compose...and the most important of all no one stops me... I can take a trip to my dreamland, its costless; yet priceless...

''ARE YOU DAY DREAMING!'' is every teachers sentence, heard by millions of people like me around the world. 

Most of the times I hear this its usually when im on a trip to my wonderland where fishes fly,animals talk,teachers let you chat at class( you learn a lot when you talk) teachers give you nap time come on, just forty winks... 

My wonderland is a wonderful place to be any time, its always happy enough to cheer me up if im having a hard time.

The people of my wonderland are the ones whom I've met some place, somewhere. I wish to meet them everyday, but the people in my dreams never remain the same. In my wonderland everyday is a new adventure waiting to be explored. visiting my dreamland is not that easy, there are times I very unexpectedly reach there and times when I try hard to reach there but I don't.

In spite all the struggles, when I am there I have a gala time.  

I hope you have a wonderful time visiting your dreamland.